You mean well.
Here's what to actually say.
Ask Earl is a private AI that helps you fix things with your partner. Tell him what's going on and get the exact words, when to say them, and what to avoid. Then tell him how it went, and he gets better at it every time.
I didn't see how much you've been carrying, and I'm sorry. I want to actually take things off your plate, not just talk about it. What would help most this week?
Two taps to the right words.
Tell Earl what's going on
Pick what's closest, like "she's carrying too much" or "we had a big fight," and answer one quick question. No forms, no therapy speak.
Get the exact words
What to say, why it lands for your partner, when to say it, and the one thing to avoid. Shaped around how they feel loved.
Tell him how it went
Did it help? How did they react? Your next step is built from what actually happened, so it learns what works with your partner.
Just had a fight?
Two taps from the worst moment to what to say when you walk back in.
Someone to talk to
Talk it through with Earl any time, without airing your business. A private journal he remembers, and short exercises that open things up.
Grounded in decades of relationship science.
Small moments decide big outcomes
Newlywed couples who were still married six years later had turned toward each other's small bids for attention about 86% of the time. Couples who later divorced did so about 33% of the time.
Lower odds of divorce with relationship education
In a large random household survey, people who had taken part in structured relationship education reported higher satisfaction and commitment, less conflict, and about 30% lower odds of divorce.
Self-guided programs can work
In a randomized controlled trial of a self-guided online relationship program, the average participant ended up more satisfied with their relationship than roughly three out of four couples who did not take part.
These findings come from published research on relationship skills and programs. They are not results measured on Ask Earl users. Ask Earl is not therapy and does not replace a licensed professional.
Give him the words.
For the partner who means well but doesn't always see it. Give Ask Earl as a gift with a personal note. Everything he writes stays private, even from you.
No pressure. I love us and I want us to keep growing.
Just between you and Earl.
Your partner never sees it
Nothing is shared unless you send it yourself.
Never sold
No ads. Your words are never used to train AI.
Face ID lock
Lock the app so nothing shows until you unlock it.
Delete anytime
Erase your account and everything in it, in one tap.
Good to know.
Is Earl a real person?
No. Earl is an AI with the warmth and straight talk of someone who's seen a lot of couples get it wrong and make it right. He'll always tell you he's AI, and he never makes up stories about himself.
Is this therapy?
No. Ask Earl is everyday relationship support, not therapy or medical advice. If anyone is in danger, call 911, text or call 988, or reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
What does it cost?
Your first plan is free, no sign-up. Earl Plus is $14.99 a month or $79.99 a year, with a 14-day free trial. Founding members keep that price for as long as they stay.
Does my partner need to use it?
No. Ask Earl is built for one person who wants to do better. If you want them to see the work, Earl can help you write a short note to send yourself.
Be first to try Earl.
We'll send one email on launch day. That's it.